Actor | Aaron Blackwood

Wayne Brady has come out as being pansexual. To be honest I had to look up the full definition of that word because I had a vague idea of it’s meaning; someone who can go either way. When I looked it up I was partially right. It is someone who is sexually or romantically attracted to someone regardless of their sex or gender.

Now I’ve always thought that Wayne could be on my side of the fence and if not he was straddling it. He says in his past there were times he’s been attracted to men but didn’t date them. Listen to those words didn’t date, does that mean that maybe he just had sex with them in secret? I know I’m reading between the lines here but he’s fifty-one years old, twice divorced (wonder why), is in showbusiness where he’s surrounded by queers and he’s never had the urge to suck a dick?

Why is he sharing this to the public now? Was it even necessary? Maybe someone threatened to out him and he thought he’d get ahead of the threat by choosing to say he’s pansexual so he won’t alienate his female fans. I’ve got news for you Wayne, NO ONE CARES. Do you and if you make up your mind what you are eventually go ahead and enjoy it to the fullest.

I recently watched an episode of The View with actor Michael J Fox as a guest. Mr. Fox has Parkinson’s disease and it’s severe. He was constantly shaking and his words were difficult to understand. While my heart goes out to him, why did his disability make me feel uncomfortable? I think, maybe It was difficult to watch him because of the pain or discomfort he must be going through. Then again he’s been dealing with this for thirty years, maybe he’s gotten used to it. Our bodies have an amazing way of adapting but then I don’t know for a fact about his current state.

A psychic once told me that I was a paraplegic in a recent pass life. He said that is why I feel uncomfortable but empathetic looking at people with disabilities because I still carry that pain and judgement from society that disregarded me. I don’t know if this is considered a phobia, which can be associated with early or pass-life trauma (if you believe in past lives) but it certainly seems to make sense.

I wish Mr Fox continued success in all his endeavors including the raising of incredible amounts of money towards research on Parkinson’s disease.